Tuesday, July 24, 2007

talking or listening?

hi there mnida,

today was kinda slow and boring but at least there was stuff to do. generally we talked in the office with my friends about new things in the programs. at this moment i realize that listening is so important as we all know, but of course we cant make it sometimes. but today i realize one thing also. talking is also important like listening.

listening is the way that you respect the person talking and its kinda improving your personality. because when you listen people you can empathize and understand people more and i think listening is one of the most important thing between the relationships.

talking is hard also. because we all need to know what we are saying. we can talk for hours but after all these words sometimes you wont see anything in front of you, even sometimes empty faces. so talking must be attractive, short and understandable. i know this is hard but if we look for our future we need to make sure how we talk and listen. at the right time, at the right place with the right words.

i hope i will improve this ability. thats gonna be important for myself in the mean time and also for future. but i believe that listening is more harder for all human being so we need to start from the bottom part.

mnida

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